Rules to Live By and Hills to Climb
Two recent things friends have shared with me, some changes on the business front and spending time with my family this week have given me cause to reflect on what is important. In my posts on Being Grateful earlier this year, I address many things for which I am immensely thankful. [ Being Grateful & On Being Grateful II ] Here, I’m thinking about the many challenges we all face from time to time or more frequently. These can be considered road blocks to one’s path forward, things that get in the way and stop us. I prefer to consider them “Hills to Climb” as Charles M. Blow put so well in his New York Times piece today. Thanks to my friend Michael R. Burcham for sharing.
What Charles does not address is the HOW, although he touches on it. The HOW is really important to understand. Just deciding to overcome an obstacle and to climb that hill is essential but inadequate. Many may decide but upon encountering further impediments, delays or little progress become discouraged. Nothing ever goes according to “Plan”. There will be setbacks, naysayers and failures along the way. Growing up in a family of educators, musicians and self made individuals, I learned early on how important hard work is to achieving anything worthwhile. But hard work, coupled with incredible never ending PERSISTENCE is what determines success. My Cornell classmate and fellow wrestler, Nick Whitcombe shared this inspiring video highlighting Kyle Dake’s incredible 4 NCAA National Championships at 4 DIFFERENT weight classes – a feat never before accomplished making Kyle the Sports Illustrated College Athlete of the Year. It is narrated by The Arnold, who despite his flaws (as all of us have), has always be an inspiration to me. I don’t think there are a better set of Rules to Live By if one wants to achieve a goal, attain greatness, or Climb a Hill.
1. Trust Yourself
2. Break Some Rules
3. Don’t Be Afraid to Fail
4. Ignore the Naysayers
5. Work like Hell
6. Give something Back
I’m interested in your thoughts on this or anything you might like to add. Post here or send me a note.
Cheers and Happy Holidays!